Eight Ways to Help a New Mum Even When She Does Not Ask
Even if a new mum is macho, she still needs help. You can help a new mum in different ways and with different things. She may not ask for help because she won’t want to be refused or because she doesn’t want to be a burden to other people, but she needs help. Learn ways to help a new mum even if she doesn’t ask.
Ask her areas she needs assistance
Be nice to new mums, they are strong and unique in their way. You can ask her areas she needs assistance and go ahead and assist her before she says, NO!
Assist with the laundry
A new mum has loads of chores lined up for each day, you can assist her with the laundry while she concentrates on the baby or any other chore.
Go ahead and ask to assist
You can as well go ahead and ask for her permission to assist, asking is just courtesy anyway, as some cultures may demand. Give her all the assistance you can render; she needs it so she could also have time to concentrate on her baby and time to rest.
Babysit
You can assist a new mum to babysit while she goes to freshen up etc. It is not only adults that can assist a new mum, going to get the flask from the kitchen is easy but it means a lot to a new mum.
Assist with cooking or bring cooked meals
Cooking is not one very easy task; a new mum will be happy to find help with cooking even if she doesn’t ask. You can be that angel that she needs, assist her with the cooking. Also, you can bring different delicacies that she can enjoy and take her off the stress of what to eat.
Assist with shopping
You can also assist a new mum with shopping, obviously, at this stage, she won’t be able to do her shopping by herself even if she doesn’t ask. You can assist her with her shopping, she will be grateful.
Come over and spend a weekend with her
If you have a new mum as a friend, you can do this for her without her asking, make out time for her. Call her and book to come to spend a weekend or even a week with her depending on your schedule. Be a helping hand for that period.
Send your grown-up kid
If you are an older mum with a grown-up kid, you can ask for her permission and send your kid for a holiday or a period that your kid is free from school to go assist with chores she can assist with depending on her age.
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