Eight Ways To Discipline Your Kids Without Yelling
Kids are precious and they learn everyday from us and their surroundings.Since kids will be kids their impulsive actions may lead to yelling and spanking from parents. Yelling creates a frightful expression and kids get scared and take you for a different person when you yell at them.
That been said,these eight fun ways can help you discipline your kids without yelling.
Master your emotions
The first step towards disciplining your kids without yelling is to master your emotions and take control. Arrest the triggers, then go talk gently to your child.
Give rewards
Every kid likes a reward, something extra to keep them going. Reward the kid for good work and good behavior and there will be less events that will want to make you yell at them.
Learning from experience
If a kid repeats a bad behavior and you have corrected a couple of times and it persists, you can allow the kid to have a practical taste of it at a not harmful level.
Withhold entertainment
Kids love entertainment and won’t love to lose them for anything. Withholding their entertainment is another fun way to discipline your kids without yelling. Example, “for this wrong you did, no more watching cartoon till them next day.” It is also good to add, “Until you take correction” to make the kid sit up.
Discuss with your kid
Another sure method to discipline your children without yelling is to discuss with them at their own level. Point out reasons to them why the action they took is wrong and why they shouldn’t repeat it again.
Recite a line
Make them take a line to heart and they should recite it to you at every point they air. It reminds them that the action they took is wrong and they will take correction. One my friend uses is, “every indiscipline is punishable by… And the kid responds – “losing your toys.”
Time out
Different parents have their methods of taking a time out, but the one I have preferred is just to walk away and go fix dinner or the dishes. It takes back the energy and calms you down.
Compliment them
Children are highly emotional, if you will get the best from them, then you will have to learn to give them compliments when they do the right thing. Be sure they will always look forward to doing the right thing just to earn that little compliment.
Take these steps to discipline your kids without yelling and you will be sure of raising happy children; remember, happy children make a happy home.
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